FEW SPICY..HEART-SHATTERING STILL TRUE INCIDENTS WHICH CHANGED MY LIFE AS WELL AS PEOPLE AROUND ME AND INSPIRED ME TO WRITE THIS BLOG:
1. A committed gal ....commitment of 2 years forgot these 2 years and slept with a guy who actually came for her patch up with her boyfriend for a enjoyment of 2 mins (or rather 2 hrs).
2. A couple separated..bcoz a new guy entered in girl’s life...and she had the audacity to give explanation that long distance relationship never works so lets break up . Relation of 3 years...came to end .
I have been to many places... I have met many LOVERS... I have seen broken hearts..i have seen strong LOVE...... i have met few gays too ( unfortunately one of ma friend is..god bless him ).
All these people ..these places have actually enriched my "gyan" ....
LOVE for some :
1. intense feeling ,emotional bonding for each other.. so intense that for them
BAAKI DUNIYA M** C*****E.!!!.. ( :D).
( AAP LOGON KO MERA .. SALAAM!!!)
2. “apne aap ko cool prove karne hai yaar life without a girl/boy is like a life without cellphone.
aur fir kharcha paani bhi nikal jaata hai..dad se roz roz paise nhi maangne padhte.. :P .”
( MAST HAI BE !!! ... AAP LOGON KO BHI .. SALAAM !!!)
3. “SEX SEX SEX thats all hahaha!!.... yaar who the f**k will take pain and paisa to go to a brothel,
is relation se woh bhi khush ... aur main bhi khush...”
( GOD..GOD...GOD!!!.... )
4. “ PAAGAL hai...LOVE shove kuch nhi hota...yeh sab toh dikhawa hota hai”
( NO COMMENTS... :NO : NO :NO)
Alag alag definations hai.... varies frm person to person... I have encountered all creatures of this kind. :D
Those who know me ..know very well that I am a great flop movies freak..
One dialogue of a flop movie really caught my attention..which goes--- “Log doosro ko jitna bhi pyaar karte hain....khud ko thoda sa zyada hi pyaar karte hai.”
1. True love—You love someone bcoz you are getting lots and lots of love in return...
Undoubtedly your love is pure and divine..but intentions are bit selfish.
2. One sided love—You love that girl/ boy bcoz you know that only he/she can bring happiness
in your life ( mark the words...IN YOUR LIFE..) J
3. Lusty love—you give love and you get... ahem.. ahem.. ..your happy because you are
satisfied in every respect..( sounds bit cheap na.? Wat to do ..reality):D
4. Marriage- you are force to love bcoz opposite sex helps you to get the baby.. a legal baby .
Also it saves you from a tag..IMPOTENT.
5. Reject--- (a) You reject someone by saying that you LOVE someone else...(see... you are seeing your faydaaa)
6. You say you don't love him/her bcoz you are not made for LOVE......(this has reason too-you
love yourself so much that you don't want to share that love..)
After mentioning the crap above ,.consuming 1 full page.. wasting your 2 precious minutes
here I am with a dialogue of another movie (unfortunately a hit one ) –“Aisa kya hai jo do pyaar karne walon ko bandhe rakhta hai ? Woh hai ek ehsaas jo baandhe rkhta hai..?
Now my question.... Kya hai yeh ehsaas ?? hehehehehe
I hope you have got the answer....
YES... WE ALL ARE SELFISH...WE LOVE OURSELVES.
Well this is partially true but none can deny it....
WE all live just for ourselves . The phrases like ek doosre ke liye jeena , sacrifice ,are all attractive yet bookish.
Those who already know this...well they may like this..and those who are not..should actually understand this
TO all those so called committed civilized people my message :
Look I am not a dude neither a cupid nor a love guru
But but but...all I want to say... I AM JUST AHEAD OF THE CURVE.....
PS: LOVE is the most vulnerable and interesting topic people like to talk about..
and I have used this weapon to convey a simple message.
--> BURMAN STYLE <-- :P :P :P
sahi hai bhai ! nice post !! ;P
ReplyDeleteI like the Burman style:)..I think u r kind of a love guru..:P.. most of the things u said are so true..
ReplyDeletegr8 post..!!
burman rocks! .. i dont knw what to call u.. stifler.. love guru.. sex guru.. GOD level post man.!! keep rolling!
ReplyDeletekya baat hain babba?!! pura sahi sahi baat! stifler ka baap nikle!! keep it up!! keep it coming
ReplyDeletei think burman needs to improve his love gyan a bit more and meet ppl who r really in selfless love,,thats the only way he'll be able to write ablog on this topic clearly...
ReplyDeletei appreciate wat burman has pened down but i think he needs to look from other dimensions too.
"sorry i didnt like the burman style"...its coz i really want the above matter wat this guy owns to be mine..umm isnt that selfish of me?..yup it is.. coz watever this guy has written is true.."selfishness is the inherent property of any living being" is certainly a verity..evry side of the multifaceted coin ie life has the face of selfishness engraved on it.. watever u r either u r mother , friend , lover,gandhi,mother teresa, watever u do ot u dont has a selfish motive behind it.. n love(the most vulnerable etc etc topic).. if u r in love u r selfish.. wether u love ur child wether ur pet ,a girl,a boy, the whole crowd u r loving it/him/her/them because u like to love or recieve the same frm them. lets jus accept it,,v al r selfish.. n to j2 i wanna say ...dude i kno reality sucks... but u gotta face it... love or lemme say "selfless love" however selfless u may think it is actually is selfish..n v shud undrstand it nt run frm it coz" bein human is bein selfish"... "nice job burman u really rock...i liked the way u v writn it n the topic is also too gud .. n thnku 4 givin me smthin to talk upon..(LOVE is the most vulnerable and interesting topic people like to talk about..) he he..
ReplyDeleteburman beta
ReplyDeletelagta hai....tere saath kuch hua hai?
btw i can say a nice effort
ReplyDeletedats awsum yaaar ... burman u rock man.. lov guru.... yaaar .. ye personal experience hai kyaa??/
ReplyDeletegud yaar...dats indeed a nice blog....
ReplyDeleteyaar shuruat mai bore hua
ReplyDeletepar phir
jab actual baatein saamne aayi tab aacha laga
aapke paas itna gyan klaha se aaya hai?
boliye baba burmun
not a love guru, no a gyaani but definitely a single... be in love once and then u can share much more insightful gyan..
ReplyDeleteall the best bachcha
Its gud yaar..a nice piece...
ReplyDeleteBt 1 suggestion dear frnd...
Write sumthng abt Selfless love..
Love that has ingredients lyk
TRUST
CARE
LOYALTY
COMPANIONSHIP
PASSION
hence d definition of love doesn't always go as:-
L-loss
O-of
V-valuable
E-energy
;-)
keep going buddy!!
I sort'a agree wid yu ... umm.. love is also selfish lyk othr thngs n relations.. everybdy in dis whole wrld luv demslvs mre dan nythng or nybdy else..yes dey do love others also..bt..nt mre dan demslves..
ReplyDeletelemme remind yu of an 'akbar-beerbal' story.. if u hv evr read or listened to it... in tat story beerbal tried to prove the same thng tkng a live-example of a goat n its kid.. dey put both of d poor animals in an empty swmming pool n den started filling it up slowly slowly with water.. at first the goat tried to save her n bby's lyf..tried coming out of the pool but couldnt jump out as she carried its kid along wid her...tried her best to save the baby from drowning bt when d water levels rose high and she couldnt think of any other way, she left the baby in the pool and jumped out of the pool to save her own life..
So u c ... wot ya thnk who can love sm1 mre dan deir own mother.. bt selfishness lies in tat also.. So u never know bout yur GF/BF..everybdy cres fr demslvs at last n mstly FIRST (:P) thnk yurslf fr dose who dun agree ;) ;)